Susan Thom

My New Year’s Resolution For Many Years To Come



Posted: Friday, December 30, 2011

by Susan Thom

I had been struggling with some problems for a while, when a good friend of mine reminded me of the serenity prayer.

I know this prayer well, and have used it many times, but somehow, I forgot to incorporate it into my life today, and on a daily basis. Everything I need to know is in this prayer. It is a clear cut way to live one’s life. But you have to remember it first!

There are many things I cannot change, try as I may. This normally makes me anxious and worried, but when I remember the prayer, I can work on accepting the things I cannot change. When I come across something I can change, I would like the courage to do so. Usually, that’s not a problem for me. However, having the wisdom to know the difference, is the kicker.

What can I change for the better? I may volunteer my time or simply listen to a friend pour their heart out. My advice may help them solve a problem they’ve been straddled with.I spend a lot of time trying to decipher what things I can change, and what I cannot. And if I can’t change them, can I make them better? Can I focus and concentrate on the problems for the day, and leave yesterday’s and tomorrow’s problems on hold?

There is a great deal of wisdom, in my opinion, in knowing what one can change, and what one must leave alone. In knowing, there is peace and fortitude, and in not knowing, there is confusion and sometimes anger.

I love reciting, "God grant me the serenity." He’s the only one who can, and to ask for His help, sheds light on whatever the problem may be.
"Grant" makes it sound like it can be achieved if we simply ask, and do our part. We are asking for a favor, and in return, we will try to behave as wise human beings.

It’s difficult to accept things that are hurtful or harmful to us and our spirit. Knowing whether we can change them or not takes thought, and at times, guidance.
However, if we stick to the serenity prayer, our lives will become more manageable.
We all have prayers, poems, and Bible quotations we like, that help us in our time of need. The serenity prayer is similar. If we apply it to our everyday living, and not just in times of need, we can be assured a happier life.

It takes practice, but once it is a constant in our life, we will feel stronger and more at peace.
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» left by David Tanguay
136 days 2 hours ago.
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Yes Susan the serenity prayer has helped many get through difficult times in their lives.
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» left by Susan Thom 135 days 20 hours ago.
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hi david,

i need to remember the meaning behind those words, and live them.

thank you for reading and commenting,

my best,

sue
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» left by Nancy Daniels 136 days 2 hours ago.
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Thanks for this, Susan. Great advice and something we should all have hanging on the fridge as well as in our heads.
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» left by Susan Thom 135 days 20 hours ago.
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hi nancy,

thank you for reading and commenting.

i also think it would be wise to have this poem somewhere it can be seen daily.

my best to you,

sue
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» left by Ella Camp
135 days 21 hours ago.
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I think that a copy of the serenity prayer should hang on a prominent wall in everyone's home- to be viewed and read everyday. It's a guideline to living life-and a lifeline to life itself. Good article Sue- enjoyed reading it. Thanks- Always Ella
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» left by Susan Thom 135 days 20 hours ago.
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hi ella,

thank you for reading and commenting.

i have a plaque with the serenity prayer, and i'm going to move it to my computer desk. i need to remember the meaning, and apply it to life.

my best to you,

sue
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» left by Jack H. Schick 135 days 18 hours ago.
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Thanks for the comforting read. from a friend of Bill's
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» left by Susan Thom 135 days 18 hours ago.
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hi jack,

i'm glad you have support for this crazy life we lead here on Earth.

the knowledge i gained from being a friend of bill's is astronomical.

thank you for reading and commenting, it is appreciated,

my best,

sue
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